- Some questions frequently asked by houseowners : what would you do if you were me?
♥ ok. so everyday, my parents go to work. i babysit my two little brothers from about 11-5 each day until my dad gets home. during these 6 hours, my dad wants me to take the boys to the park for atleast 30 mins, and my mom wants us to clean our 2 story house. i don't get paid for any of this, but i usually go on itunes and buy stuff as my payment from my dad. (i know i'll almost never get cash from them, especially my mom) but my problem is my mom. today i wanted to take a break from cleaning because i thought it'd be nice to not be a child slave when i'm sick and tired. so i'm trying on clothes and taking pictures to try and win some money and maybe a professional photoshoot from this magazine all day. i leave for taekwondo at around 6:20, (it's from 6:30-7:25) and my mom picks me up at about 7:35. we go to atlanta bread company for dinner, an then we get home. she is extremely p/o because the house isn't clean (never really has been) and she's ordering us around like little dogs. also saying stuff like "we just took off vacation from our [work] vaction time to go to disney world for you guys an this is how i'm repaid?!?" (dad paid for everything, the trip, the souveniers, all of it.. and mom had nothing to do with planning the trip either.) so i go into the family room and pick up all the disney bags. i kinda get smart with her (arguement like usual) and i'm passing by her between the sofa and counter, which is maybe 2 feet wide. my shoulder bumps hers and i accidently knock over something on the counter. she's p/o because she thinks i bumped into her on purpose. and when shes yelling at me and reinacting what i did shes way overexagerating. then i throw the bags at her (nothing in them just all harmless plastic bags) and shes like you b*tch! and tries to hit me. (i blocked her hit) and then we are arguing some more. later on i'm doing the dishes and she comes back and we kinda start arguing again. well this time i was hand washing all of her delicate glass vases that i know will break in the dish washer. the water on the outside of this smooth round glass vase mad it so slippery that it slipped out of my hands. i was like oh sh! (stopped myself from swearing) and i tried to save the vase. it broke in the sink and i'd cut my finger trying to keep it from falling. so i'm bleeding and everything rinsing it off with water and my mom's like you did that on purpose! and in my mind im like wtf b*tch!! no i didnt! so then we start argueing about that. i go upstairs etc stay up there awhile. i go downstairs to get a drink of water and i finish doing the dishes. my mom comes in the kitchen and is p/o and says your wearing my shirt. go put it back! and im like what? right now ok! (i dont have nething on under it) and shes like quit being a ***** and i just ignore her. then she gets as close to me as she can get (all in my face) and i kinda push her back with my arms. i mean i dont want neone in my freakin face!! we got in another arguement after that. what would you do if you were me? i feel like knocking the living day lights out of her my parents don't get along too well either. if my dad takes my side at all or tells my mom to tone it down or try to get along, she will flip out and be p/o at him too. i'm surprised they don't have a divorce yet my dad was there all the times these things happen, and he and i both know it's best to stay out of any conflict with my mom. (we are tired of dealing with it, shes keeps coming back at you and she always has to win a fight) and yes, i should try to respect her because she does pay the bills and works from about 12-6 sometimes later. but the way she talks to me just makes me not want to respect her at all whatsoever.